Bento Box in the Heartland: My Japanese Girlhood in Whitebread America
by Furiya, Linda
Plot/Summary:
In this memoir, Linda Furiya recalls her childhood growing
up in the only Asian family in Versailles, Indiana. In
each chapter she recounts a particular experience and
concludes with a recipe for a Japanese dish that relates
to the experience, especially fitting because food played
a very large role in her family’s life. Stories she
relates include her embarrassment at being the only child
at school who had rice balls and chopsticks in her lunch
box and having to reciprocate a sleepover which she puts
off for fear of what her friend will learn about her
family. Other episodes are more humorous such as a family
trip to catch crabs in Florida and having to write notes
to
her own teachers because of her mother’s limited English.
Two adventures, Linda’s trip to Japan with her mother at
age 10 and visiting Americanized relatives in New York at
age 15, contribute greatly to her understanding of herself
and her first-generation Japanese parents. Despite minor
conflicts growing up, she has tremendous love and respect
for her family which becomes especially apparent after she
lives home.
Comments:
This is a delightful and sensitively told memoir of a
young girl growing up very much as an outsider in her
community. It reveals much about Linda’s experiences and
perceptions but also much about the past lives of her
mother and father. Fans of Amy Tan's The Joy Luck
Club and other cross-cultural intergenerational
stories will enjoy this memoir.
Reviewed by ch, 5/07. Other reviews by ch. Have you read this book? Tell us what you think!
